A SAFE SPACE IS NEEDED FOR BOTH YOU THE CLIENT, AND ME THE CUDDLER.
I aim to create a safe space for my client. To understand why they are coming to me and what they hope to get out of the session. All sessions take place at a location on Chicago's north side. I do not do out calls to your home.
INGREDIENTS FOR MAKING A SAFE SPACE
A. We agree that the cuddle session can be both pleasurable and platonic. We both remain clothed. You agree to speak up if something is no comfortable to you. And to ask for what kind of touch you want, that goes with the guidelines referenced below.
B. Since you already know what I look from this site, I ask that you also sent a current photo of yourself so I know how to look for on the day of our session. Ideally you will share your full name, along with email and phone. My name is Dwight Okita and feel free to google me.
C. Importantly, we need to have a phone call before we book our session. (Thus I don't do same-day appointments.) This allows both of us to get a sense of each other's personality, and to make sure my services are what you are seeking. We can vet each other so that we feel safe and comfortable with each other. I accept pre-payment by Zelle. Or I can accept payment in cash just before we start our session.
D. Lastly I have Cuddle Guidelines which clients should read first (See PROMISES page) to clarify boundaries for a safe experience. Mainly this cuddle is all about you and what you need that you aren't getting out in the world.