A SAFE SPACE IS NEEDED FOR BOTH YOU THE CLIENT, AND ME THE CUDDLER.
I aim to create a safe space for my client. To understand why they are coming to me and what they hope to get out of the session. All sessions take place at my high-rise condo on Chicago's north side, near Montrose and the lake. There is 24 hour front desk security. I do not do out calls to your home. I only seek clients in mine so that I'm able to create an ideal setting.
INGREDIENTS FOR MAKING A SAFE SPACE
A. Since you already know what I look from this site, I ask that you also sent a current photo of yourself so I know how to look for on the day of our session. Ideally you will share you full name, along with email and phone. Your name allows me to google you. My name is Dwight Okita and you can google me also.
B. Importantly, we need to have a phone call (or zoom chat) before we book our session. (Thus I don't do same-day appointments.) This allows both of us to get a sense of each other's personality, and to make sure my services are what you are seeking. We can vet each other so that we feel safe and comfortable with each other. I accept pre-payment by Zelle. Or I can accept payment in cash just before we start our session.
C. Lastly I have Cuddle Guidelines which clients should read first (See PROMISES page) to clarify boundaries for a safe experience. Mainly this cuddle is all about you and what you need that you aren't getting out in the world.